4 Month Old Sleep Schedule: How Much Should a 4 Month Old Sleep?
Struggling with your 4 month old's sleep? Discover age-appropriate wake windows, a customizable sample schedule, and gentle sleep training options to help your baby (and you!) get more restful nights.
Updated: 16 Apr 2025
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4 Month Old Sleep Schedule: How Much Should a 4 Month Old Sleep?
Struggling with your 4 month old's sleep? Discover age-appropriate wake windows, a customizable sample schedule, and gentle sleep training options to help your baby (and you!) get more restful nights.
Updated: 16 Apr 2025
6 min read
Sleep - that precious commodity that seems so elusive when you have a 4 month old! If you're reading this through bleary eyes at 3 AM, know that you're not alone. The 4-month mark brings exciting developmental leaps, but can also turn your previously decent sleeper into a frequent night-waker. Let's dive into creating a sleep schedule that works for both of you.
Editor's Note
Editor's Note: For children who were born early, we go by their adjusted age for sleep development. Each child is unique, and sleep needs vary. The following information is a guide - don’t worry about meeting exact totals.
Tired of tracking wake windows on zero sleep? You're not alone! That's why we created Riley, the app helping parents reclaim their sanity (and maybe even enjoy a hot cup of coffee).
Understanding Sleep Needs for Your 4 Month Old Baby
At 4 months, your baby is going through some major sleep changes - welcome to what sleep experts affectionately call the "4-month sleep regression." 😴
Here's what's happening behind those adorable eyelids:
- Your baby now cycles through sleep stages more like an adult
- They need approximately 12 - 15 hours of total sleep daily
- This typically breaks down to 10 - 12 hours at night and 3 - 4 hours across 3 - 4 daytime naps
- Their brain is busy processing all the amazing skills they're developing
The science is clear: quality sleep isn't just about stopping those midnight cries - it's foundational for your baby's brain development, immune function, and overall happiness.
Sample 4 Month Old Sleep Chart
- Average total sleep: 12 - 15 hours
- Number of naps: 3 - 4
- Goal daytime sleep: 3 - 4 hours
- Wake windows: 1.5 - 2 hours
Wake Windows for 4 Month Olds
Wake windows - aka how long your baby can comfortably stay awake between sleeps - are your secret weapon for better baby sleep. At 4 months, most babies thrive with wake windows of 1.5 - 2 hours.
Too short? They'll fight sleep. Too long? Hello, overtired meltdown!
Watch for those sleepy cues:
- Rubbing eyes
- Pulling ears
- Becoming quieter or zoning out
- The subtle yawn that makes your heart melt
Sample Sleep Schedule for 4 Month Olds
Remember, this is a framework, not rigid rules. Your unique baby might need adjustments, and that's perfectly normal!
Morning Rise: 7:00 AM - Good morning!
First Nap: 8:30 - 9:45 AM (Wake window: ~1.5 hours)
Second Nap: 11:45 AM - 1:00 PM (Wake window: ~2 hours)
Third Nap: 3:00 - 4:00 PM (Wake window: ~2 hours)
Fourth Nap: 5:30 - 6:00 PM (Optional cat nap if needed)
Bedtime Routine Start: 6:45 PM
Bedtime: 7:30 PM (Wake window: ~2 hours from last nap)
Remember that some 4 month olds are transitioning from 4 to 3 naps. If your baby seems ready (extending wake windows naturally), you might see that fourth nap disappear.
Top Tips For Better Sleep For 4 Month Olds
Consistent routine is neurological gold. Create a simple, repeatable bedtime routine (bath, massage, book, feed, sleep). Your baby's brain starts recognizing these cues as "sleep is coming," making the transition easier.
Environment matters. Keep the sleep space dark (yes, even for daytime naps!), cool (68 - 72°F), and with white noise that mimics the womb. Swaddle alternatives like sleep sacks work wonders for babies who've started rolling.
The eating-sleeping connection. At 4 months, many babies still need nighttime feeds. Aim for a larger feed before your bedtime (sometimes called a "dream feed") to potentially extend that first stretch of sleep.
Practice independent sleep skills. Try putting baby down drowsy but awake at least once a day. This builds confidence in their ability to fall asleep without being held.
Adjust as needed. Some days will flow perfectly; others won't. Be flexible and remember that developmental leaps, teething, or simply having an off day can disrupt even the best sleep schedule.
Can I Sleep Train My 4 Month Old?
The 4-month mark is often when parents start considering sleep training. The science says:
- Your baby is developmentally ready to learn independent sleep skills
- Their circadian rhythm is establishing[1]
- They can physically go longer stretches without feeding
Sleep training doesn't have to mean "cry it out." Options range from gentle methods like the chair method to more structured approaches. Whatever you choose, consistency is key.
If sleep training feels right for your family, research different methods and choose one that aligns with your parenting philosophy. If it doesn't feel right yet, that's completely okay too! There's no parenting prize for the earliest sleep trainer.
4 Month Old Sleep Schedule FAQs
Q: My baby was sleeping through the night, and suddenly wakes every hour. What happened?
A: Welcome to a possible sleep regression! Your baby's sleep cycles have matured, and they're more aware of transitions between cycles (and of your absence!). This is developmentally appropriate (though exhausting). Focus on teaching self-soothing skills to help them connect sleep cycles.
Q: Should I stop swaddling at 4 months?
A: Yes, once your baby shows signs of rolling, it's time to transition out of the swaddle for safety. Try a sleep sack or transition swaddle that allows arm movement.
Q: Is my baby getting enough daytime sleep?
A: Watch for signs of overtiredness, like increased fussiness or shorter naps. Most 4 month olds need 3 - 4 hours of daytime sleep spread across 3 - 4 naps.
Q: My baby only naps for 30 minutes. Is this normal?
A: Short naps are common at this age! Many babies take "cat naps" until their sleep cycles consolidate around 5 - 6 months. Try extending wake windows slightly or helping them back to sleep at the 30-minute mark.
Q: Can I introduce a lovey or comfort object?
A: For safety, wait until 12 months before introducing soft toys or blankets in the crib.
Conclusion
The 4-month sleep schedule is less about rigid timing and more about finding your baby's natural rhythm while providing consistent structure. Some days will flow smoothly; others will feel like survival mode, and both are completely normal!
Remember that sleep is developmental. Just like you can't rush your baby's first steps, you can't force sleep maturity. What you can do is create the optimal conditions for good sleep habits to flourish.
The greatest gift you can give yourself during this phase? Self-compassion. You're navigating one of parenting's biggest challenges while running on minimal sleep yourself. Take those deep breaths, lean on your support system, and know that this phase really is temporary.
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Sleep - that precious commodity that seems so elusive when you have a 4 month old! If you're reading this through bleary eyes at 3 AM, know that you're not alone. The 4-month mark brings exciting developmental leaps, but can also turn your previously decent sleeper into a frequent night-waker. Let's dive into creating a sleep schedule that works for both of you.
Editor's Note
Editor's Note: For children who were born early, we go by their adjusted age for sleep development. Each child is unique, and sleep needs vary. The following information is a guide - don’t worry about meeting exact totals.
Tired of tracking wake windows on zero sleep? You're not alone! That's why we created Riley, the app helping parents reclaim their sanity (and maybe even enjoy a hot cup of coffee).
Understanding Sleep Needs for Your 4 Month Old Baby
At 4 months, your baby is going through some major sleep changes - welcome to what sleep experts affectionately call the "4-month sleep regression." 😴
Here's what's happening behind those adorable eyelids:
- Your baby now cycles through sleep stages more like an adult
- They need approximately 12 - 15 hours of total sleep daily
- This typically breaks down to 10 - 12 hours at night and 3 - 4 hours across 3 - 4 daytime naps
- Their brain is busy processing all the amazing skills they're developing
The science is clear: quality sleep isn't just about stopping those midnight cries - it's foundational for your baby's brain development, immune function, and overall happiness.
Sample 4 Month Old Sleep Chart
- Average total sleep: 12 - 15 hours
- Number of naps: 3 - 4
- Goal daytime sleep: 3 - 4 hours
- Wake windows: 1.5 - 2 hours
Wake Windows for 4 Month Olds
Wake windows - aka how long your baby can comfortably stay awake between sleeps - are your secret weapon for better baby sleep. At 4 months, most babies thrive with wake windows of 1.5 - 2 hours.
Too short? They'll fight sleep. Too long? Hello, overtired meltdown!
Watch for those sleepy cues:
- Rubbing eyes
- Pulling ears
- Becoming quieter or zoning out
- The subtle yawn that makes your heart melt
Sample Sleep Schedule for 4 Month Olds
Remember, this is a framework, not rigid rules. Your unique baby might need adjustments, and that's perfectly normal!
Morning Rise: 7:00 AM - Good morning!
First Nap: 8:30 - 9:45 AM (Wake window: ~1.5 hours)
Second Nap: 11:45 AM - 1:00 PM (Wake window: ~2 hours)
Third Nap: 3:00 - 4:00 PM (Wake window: ~2 hours)
Fourth Nap: 5:30 - 6:00 PM (Optional cat nap if needed)
Bedtime Routine Start: 6:45 PM
Bedtime: 7:30 PM (Wake window: ~2 hours from last nap)
Remember that some 4 month olds are transitioning from 4 to 3 naps. If your baby seems ready (extending wake windows naturally), you might see that fourth nap disappear.
Top Tips For Better Sleep For 4 Month Olds
Consistent routine is neurological gold. Create a simple, repeatable bedtime routine (bath, massage, book, feed, sleep). Your baby's brain starts recognizing these cues as "sleep is coming," making the transition easier.
Environment matters. Keep the sleep space dark (yes, even for daytime naps!), cool (68 - 72°F), and with white noise that mimics the womb. Swaddle alternatives like sleep sacks work wonders for babies who've started rolling.
The eating-sleeping connection. At 4 months, many babies still need nighttime feeds. Aim for a larger feed before your bedtime (sometimes called a "dream feed") to potentially extend that first stretch of sleep.
Practice independent sleep skills. Try putting baby down drowsy but awake at least once a day. This builds confidence in their ability to fall asleep without being held.
Adjust as needed. Some days will flow perfectly; others won't. Be flexible and remember that developmental leaps, teething, or simply having an off day can disrupt even the best sleep schedule.
Can I Sleep Train My 4 Month Old?
The 4-month mark is often when parents start considering sleep training. The science says:
- Your baby is developmentally ready to learn independent sleep skills
- Their circadian rhythm is establishing[1]
- They can physically go longer stretches without feeding
Sleep training doesn't have to mean "cry it out." Options range from gentle methods like the chair method to more structured approaches. Whatever you choose, consistency is key.
If sleep training feels right for your family, research different methods and choose one that aligns with your parenting philosophy. If it doesn't feel right yet, that's completely okay too! There's no parenting prize for the earliest sleep trainer.
4 Month Old Sleep Schedule FAQs
Q: My baby was sleeping through the night, and suddenly wakes every hour. What happened?
A: Welcome to a possible sleep regression! Your baby's sleep cycles have matured, and they're more aware of transitions between cycles (and of your absence!). This is developmentally appropriate (though exhausting). Focus on teaching self-soothing skills to help them connect sleep cycles.
Q: Should I stop swaddling at 4 months?
A: Yes, once your baby shows signs of rolling, it's time to transition out of the swaddle for safety. Try a sleep sack or transition swaddle that allows arm movement.
Q: Is my baby getting enough daytime sleep?
A: Watch for signs of overtiredness, like increased fussiness or shorter naps. Most 4 month olds need 3 - 4 hours of daytime sleep spread across 3 - 4 naps.
Q: My baby only naps for 30 minutes. Is this normal?
A: Short naps are common at this age! Many babies take "cat naps" until their sleep cycles consolidate around 5 - 6 months. Try extending wake windows slightly or helping them back to sleep at the 30-minute mark.
Q: Can I introduce a lovey or comfort object?
A: For safety, wait until 12 months before introducing soft toys or blankets in the crib.
Conclusion
The 4-month sleep schedule is less about rigid timing and more about finding your baby's natural rhythm while providing consistent structure. Some days will flow smoothly; others will feel like survival mode, and both are completely normal!
Remember that sleep is developmental. Just like you can't rush your baby's first steps, you can't force sleep maturity. What you can do is create the optimal conditions for good sleep habits to flourish.
The greatest gift you can give yourself during this phase? Self-compassion. You're navigating one of parenting's biggest challenges while running on minimal sleep yourself. Take those deep breaths, lean on your support system, and know that this phase really is temporary.
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